Saturday, August 23, 2014

Yes, You Can! Borrow From our Lending Library

Happy Blog Day!


International Babywearing Week is fast approaching  - it's October 5th through 11th - and we have so much fun in store for you! You will be hearing a lot about fundraising efforts in the weeks before, and during the week itself. We have T-shirt sales already in progress, a refreshed logo and more t-shirts in the works, and some fantastic prizes that we are working on how to raffle off . . . I mean, really. It's going to be a week-long blitz of babywearing awesomeness.


 

I know all of you are curious about why we fund raise and where money goes. The majority of all proceeds are used to purchase carriers for the Lending Library. Some funds are used to purchase business cards. Others are used for miscellaneous things that the group needs to get the word out about us, like printing fliers, or other advertising costs (a few publications are free, but many charge a nominal fee to print anything about our events or the group itself).  Unlike other groups, we are independent of any larger organization (we are not a Babywearing International Chapter, and International Babywearing Week is not a week sponsored solely by BWI). Since we are independent, we do not charge any membership fees. No portion of the funds we raise is dedicated to a larger body. It all stays local, to benefit existing members and grow our group.

The Lending Library


Shakespeare is often quoted:

Neither a borrower nor a lender be,
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.
Hamlet, Act I scene 3

Melissa and H borrowed this wrap from Jackie.
H loved it so much, Melissa had to get one of her own.
But you know what? Shakespeare is wrong. Yes. Wrong. At least when it comes to loaning baby carriers. We have gained so many friends through the loaning and borrowing of baby carriers. It's this generosity of spirit that I think has really helped to grow our local babywearing community. I have heard so many parents, close to giving up on babywearing, say: What I have doesn't work for me. My back hurts. My baby hates it! Help! And a babywearing friend steps in, says, hey: try THIS, or this, or this,  and somewhere along the way, the different carrier clicks, and the parent, once so close to giving up, is now a babywearing convert and outspoken advocate. That, my friends, is why I love our group.


So what is the Lending Library, exactly?

The Lending Library is a group of carriers "owned" by the group, for the sole purpose of having members try them, borrow them, and return them. Our particular library started mostly from personal donations of the leaders and a few generous members. We've solicited major brands for donations and discounts, and a few have graciously responded. Tula offered us a discount, and thanks to our last fundraiser, we were able to add both a standard and a toddler sized Tula to the Library. Boba generously donated a Boba 4G to our Lending Library just in the last month. We've also won or had donated a few woven wraps. Slowly, our Library is growing.

How does it work?

Can anyone borrow a carrier? Just about. We do require you to attend at least two meetings, or play dates, or a combination of both. Why? We want to get to know you! We also have a responsibility to make sure that you are borrowing a carrier that will work for you (i.e. not borrowing the Toddler Tula when you have a 4 month old), and that you know how to use it before you take it home. We certainly don't expect you to be an expert in its use prior to borrowing it, but we do need to know that you can use it safely, and we expect you to get better as you practice.

How much does it cost? Your first rental is FREE. Subsequent rentals cost $5.00. Whether it's your first or fourteenth rental, you do need to leave a deposit for the replacement value of the carrier. This can be in the form of a check (which is not cashed) or other means (we've done debit card numbers, for example). The check (or other form of deposit) is returned to you intact, when we receive the carrier back.

How long can a carrier be loaned? Right now, the loan term is one month. 30 days to play with, explore, familiarize yourself with a carrier. To figure out if you want to buy one of your own. To determine what does, and does not, work for you. For example, maybe you borrowed the Tula, but after a couple weeks, you realize you don't really like how the shoulder straps fit. Or maybe you took the Kinderpack home and discovered that no matter how hard you try, you just can't get it comfortable. In other words, enough time to really know the carrier and make some solid decisions.

Why do people do more than one loan? Well, for some, because the first thing they tried didn't work for them. Others are just curious. Some parents borrow our carriers as they work to save up for one of their own. Yes, you can buy some carriers more cheaply (like any one of the Infantino line), but often times, after trying on something different, a parent may realize that it really is worth the extra money to get a more expensive carrier.

What's available in the Lending Library?


A view of our lending library
(plus a few additions from our leaders)



The list below is the full list of what is in our Lending Library.

Woven and Stretchy Wraps:


from top left: Hybrid stretch, NB Feathers, Didymos Jonas
NB Snowflakes, Little Frog woolie (not LL), NB Raspberry (not LL),
dark purple wrap, and Didymos Geckos
    Moby-(Chocolate)
  • Sleepy Wrap-(Off White)
Both the Moby and the Sleepy Wrap are very similar. These carriers are best for newborns through up to about 15 lbs. If you are very deliberate with your wrapping, you can comfortably carry even a toddler in stretchy wrap. The main complaint I hear about either is that they are hot to wear, due to the material content (it is not very breathable) and the fact that a supportive carry is several layers of not-very-breathable fabric. For Front Carries Only.










Wrapsody Hybrid Stretch- (Brigid/green)

The Wrapsody Hybrid Stretch is one of my favorite options for those on a budget. These are soft, moldable, with just enough stretch, in the right direction, to make for a comfortably supportive carry, yet not so much stretch that they get saggy at a certain weight point. Also, unlike the Moby or Sleepy Wrap, the Hybrid Stretch is thin and breathable, making it much more comfortable to wear in our South Carolina heat. This is the only wrap with stretch that is safe to use in a back carry.


Brady using the Breeze
  • Wrapsody Breeze- (Kimber)
The Wrapsody Breeze is a sturdy gauze wrap. It is very breathable and a great choice in the summer. This wrap is never going to be as soft as the Hybrid Stretch (which feels like a well-loved t-shirt), but it is incredibly supportive, even with heavier toddlers. Safe for front, hip, and back carries.





Ellevil Jade long 4 -

Ellevill Jade is a 100% cotton wrap, so it is easy to care for, on the thinner side, and is well broken in (read: soft). Ellevill wraps are known for having long tapers (tapers are the ends of a wrap, often cut at an angle. When laid out, most wraps are shaped like a parallelogram). The longer tapers make for smaller knots when you are tying, which some people do prefer.
Natibaby Graphite Feathers 4-
Emily in Feathers
Natibaby Feathers is a linen blend wrap. Linen is slightly pickier to care for (but don't worry - you don't need to do anything regarding care/washing for wraps while they are in your home), but it's incredibly supportive and breathable. Linen is a top choice for parents with heavier kids who live in hot climates, and this is fantastic addition to the Library for that reason alone. Natibaby wraps in general have a dense, flat weave which makes them a bit slippery, but the linen in this wrap gives it enough grip to make sure that your passes stay in place.

What you can probably do with a size 4 wrap. Note that the mama in the link is a tiny 114 lb person. I'm size 16 and I can actually do most of what's on her list with a size 4, too, albeit with shorter tails.

Hoppediz Acapulco 6-

Hoppediz Acapulco

Hoppediz is a less well known European brand that makes sturdy cotton wraps.





Natibaby Winter 6
Chris, in Winter

Natibaby Winter is a wool blend wrap. Don't let the wool scare you away! Wool isn't just for winter;
this is not a super thick wrap, and the inherent properties of wool make it a great choice for all seasons, since it wicks away moisture and breathes well. Wool is also notoriously smooshy and comfortable on the shoulders. It does require special care and handling while washing, so please, please, do NOT wash this wrap.

What you can do with a size 6 wrap - for the average parent, this is the base size; in other words, what you can do beginner multi layer carries like Front Wrap Cross Carry and Double Hammock in.
     
Didymos Geckos 7-

Katrina, in Geckos
Didymos is one of the oldest woven wrap manufacturers, and Geckos is one of their famous jacquard weaves. Jacquard weaves are great, because they are sturdy, not prone to pulls or snags, and are very supportive. A size 7 is great length for most plus size moms and some dads to start with. It's my preferred size to do a Front Wrap Cross Carry, Double Hammock, and Tandem Wrap in.
 
What you can do with a size 7 wrap.
 




Ring Slings:

Emily in the SBP linen
I love Ring Slings. They are my favorite carrier choice for newborns, due to how easy they are to use, and I am loving ring slings again with my 24 lb 17 month old, who wants front snuggles and to get up and down a lot to explore. We have 2 very different ring slings available to try.
Sakura Bloom slings have a gathered shoulder, are very classy and comfortable. This is a natural/raw silk so has a dull sheen and a bit of grip to it. The double layers make it supportive, but may also make it less breathable.
Sleeping Baby natural Linen-

Sleeping Baby is the gold standard in compliant WAHM businesses. This sling has her standard pleated shoulder and is made of oatmeal colored linen, which is a great choice for it's breathability and light weight.


Katrina in Ellaroo MT
Mei Tai:
  • Kozy mei tai- (echino owl/tiger)
  • Baby Hawk mei tai (star trek)
  • Ellaroo- (blue and tan striped)
  • Infantino Sash-
All regular Mei Tai are an affordable option that many parents prefer as a go-to carrier. Less expensive than woven wraps, but with similar versatility, and as easy to use as a buckle carrier/SSC, but without the adjusting of clips and buckles. Mei Tai can be used newborn through toddler.



Pouches:
  • Hotslings pouch- (Brown with white polka dots, size 4)
  • Peanut Shell pouch - size small aqua with brown dots
Pouches are a convenient option for many parents because they fold up small and easily fit in any diaper bag. They are sized though, and must fit the wearer in order to be used safely. These are best used in upright tummy-to-tummy carries with newborns or in a hip carry with older infants and toddlers.


Soft-Structured Carriers:

All of the SSC available in our Lending Library
We have quite a few SSC to choose from, and are always looking for more; they are by far one of our most popular Lending Library items. Why so many? because different carriers fit different bodies and babies differently. What a tall, fluffy mama might find incredibly comfortable, may not fit a petite mama as well, and vice versa. Each carriers shoulder straps and waist fits differently, making trying these before buying one imperative, in my opinion, especially since many of these can't be found in big box stores.

  • Ergo (tan with bugs and butterflies, matching infant insert and belt extender)
The original Ergo is a gateway carrier for many parents. The newborn insert is generally used from birth to 3 or 4 months. The purpose is to lift the baby up inside the carrier and provide a narrower seat for a smaller baby. Ergo can be used for front, back, and hip carries for most infants and toddlers, though many parents choose to "size up" to a different carrier in toddler-hood due the short back of the Ergo being problematic for leaners.
  • Ergo Sport (Black)-
Like the original Ergo, the Sport is usable as a front, back and hip carrier. What makes it different from the original is more breathability in our hot climate.
    Justin, in the Angelpack
  • AngelPack--(animal print)
AngelPack is a smaller SSC, some would call it more of a buckle-tai in that the shape of the body is
not as structured as most SSCs, it is more flat and rectangular like a standard mei tai.


  • Standard Tula (Spotted Love)-
This Standard Tula is a popular lending item due to the brand's increasing popularity. Tulas are known for their slender shoulder straps and structured waist bands. Standard Tulas fit beginning around age 3 months until sometime close to a year, give or take, depending on your baby.

  • Toddler Tula (Prepster) -
The Toddler Tula will fit most 2 year olds, on up, and is popular for many of the same reasons as the Standard size. The main drawback I personally find with the Tula line is that the shoulder straps are sewn onto the body of the carrier, making crossing the straps in back when front carrying impossible.

  • Boba 4G
The Boba is a new addition, generously donated by the company. I personally owned a 3G and loved
it - it had a higher back than my previous Ergo making it a good fit for my toddler. I also liked that the waist and shoulder straps were longer, making it a more comfortable fit for my plus size self and extra-tall husband.


Things we are looking to add to the Lending Library:


A Kinderpack - many of you have them, have seen or heard of them, and want to try out their awesomeness. Unfortunately the company itself no longer does Lending Library discounts, so we are on the look out for one at a killer price. If you know of one, please message one of the leaders on Facebook. We did have one in our Library, but it is an older version that has seen a lot of love and is no longer available for lending. We are trying to keep the Library as current as possible, so when you try something and love it, you know what you are buying is very similar to what you already know and love. Ideally, we would love to have both a standard and a toddler sized Kinderpack in our Library.

Woven Wraps: Right now we are on the look out for good shorty wraps. So far our requirements seem to include: different colored rails for ease of use and be made of a sturdy cotton, hemp, or linen blend.

Ring Slings: Ring Slings are also very popular. Any carrier we include in our Library must be made by CPCIA compliant company, so we can not offer any DIY ring slings for loan.

If you have other suggestions of things you'd like to see added to the library, let us know!

Upcoming Events:

 

Thursday, August 28th - Ring Slings and Rebozos - Join us at 10:00 a.m at the LDS Church on Broad River Rd to learn about, troubleshoot, and tweak your Ring Sling and Rebozo knot skills.

 

Saturday, September 6th - Ergonomics of Babywearing - Join us for a special joint event at Capital City Chiropractic. This is a great event to invite new or potential babywearing friends. This starts a little earlier at 9:00 a.m.

 

Saturday, September 13th - Our usual monthly meeting at the LDS Institute on Assembly St. Join us at 10:00 a.m. - You won't want to miss what we have in store!

 

Thursday, September 25th - Our usual monthly weekday meeting at the LDS Church on Broad River Road. We can't wait to share with you what we are planning!

 

International Babywearing Week - October 5th - 11th - We have several events planned, some in person, some will be online only. This is going to be a great opportunity to share the babywearing love, you won't want to miss a thing!

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